
Asking is not an option. Daniel is the most reticent of three brothers with autism, staying in his own world even at times when his body would seem to demand he reach out. Last year, his eardrum burst after an infection his parents knew nothing about.
“I don’t think you can ever understand this if you haven’t been through it,” Mrs. O’Connor said.
Raising three kids with autism may make the O’Connors an extraordinary case, but more people in the region are in similar circumstances. From 1994 to 2004, the number of autistic children in New Hanover County Schools jumped 12-fold from 18 to 209, outpacing even the much-publicized growth at the national level, put at 500 percent for the past decade by the U.S. Government Accountability Office. (continue)